Taking Back Your Life from a Narcissistic Family Upbringing

Taking Back Your Life from a Narcissistic Family Upbringing

November 29, 2016

By Dan Neuharth, PhD, LMFT, GoodTherapy.org Topic Expert

http://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/taking-back-your-life-from-narcissistic-family-upbringing-1129164?utm_source=Subscribers&utm_campaign=a198e1696d-EMAIL_CAMPAIGN_2016_11_29&utm_medium=email&utm_term=0_135946a8dd-a198e1696d-71304725

Undoing the Harm of Childhood Trauma

Undoing the Harm of Childhood Trauma and Adversity

By Mitzi Baker on October 05, 2016

From University of California San Francisco

https://www.ucsf.edu/news/2016/10/404446/undoing-harm-childhood-trauma-and-adversity

Self Esteem: A Family Affair

Self Esteem: A Family Affair, by Jane Illsley Clarke, MA, PhD. (1998)

This book is written for parents and describes what a child needs at each age to create a healthy self-esteem. It’s good for clients to read and think about whether they received the things needed at each age, and if not, work with their therapist to help them get those things now as adults. If the client is a parent, it can also help them with parenting.

The Childhood Experiences That Can Cut 20 Years Off Your Life

 

December 16, 2015

By Bill Frist, Contributor, covers global and domestic health care and health care reform

At Forbes.com

http://www.forbes.com/sites/billfrist/2015/12/16/the-childhood-experiences-that-can-cut-20-years-off-your-life/

7 Signs You Grew Up With A Toxic Parent & Didn’t Know It

Images: AMC; Giphy

By JR THORPE at bustle.com

LIFESTYLE

http://www.bustle.com/articles/129270-7-signs-you-grew-up-with-a-toxic-parent-didnt-know-it?utm_source=facebook&utm_medium=owned&utm_campaign=bustle

The Lifelong Cost of Burying Our Traumatic Experiences

The lifelong cost of burying our traumatic experiences

Past trauma can mean not feeling fully alive in the present (Image: Stanley Greene/Noor/eyevine)

The Lifelong Cost of Burying Our Traumatic Experiences

By Shaoni Bhattacharya, consultant for New Scientist

Magazine issue 2994 published November 8, 2014

In New Scientist Magazine

https://www.newscientist.com/article/mg22429941-200-the-lifelong-cost-of-burying-our-traumatic-experiences/?utm_content=buffer5a5fd&utm_medium=social&utm_source=facebook.com&utm_campaign=buffer

Wounds That Won’t Heal

Wounds That Won’t Heal – The ACE Study (Preview)

CavalcadeProductions

Published on Apr 25, 2013

Adverse childhood experiences (ACEs), though well concealed, are unexpectedly common, and have a profound effect on adult health. In the 30-minute program previewed here, eight adult survivors of ACEs describe their childhood experiences and the effects later in life, including obesity, depression, and addictions. To learn more about Wounds That Won’t Heal and our other DVDs for trauma survivors, see our website, www.cavalcadeproductions.com , or call 800-345-5530.

Childhood Disrupted: How Your Biography Becomes Your Biology

Childhood Disrupted: How Your Biography Becomes Your Biology, and How You Can Heal, by Donna Jackson Nakazawa. (2015)

A groundbreaking book showing the link between Adverse Childhood Experiences (ACEs) and adult illnesses such as heart disease, autoimmune disease, and cancer—Childhood Disrupted also explains how to cope with these emotional traumas and even heal from them.

Your biography becomes your biology. The emotional trauma we suffer as children not only shapes our emotional lives as adults, it also affects our physical health, longevity, and overall wellbeing. Scientists now know on a bio-chemical level exactly how parents’ chronic fights, divorce, death in the family, being bullied or hazed, and growing up with a hypercritical, alcoholic, or mentally ill parent can leave permanent, physical “fingerprints” on our brains.

When we as children encounter sudden or chronic adversity, excessive stress hormones cause powerful changes in the body, altering our body chemistry. The developing immune system and brain react to this chemical barrage by permanently resetting our stress response to “high,” which in turn can have a devastating impact on our mental and physical health.

Donna Jackson Nakazawa shares stories from people who have recognized and overcome their adverse experiences, shows why some children are more immune to stress than others, and explains why women are at particular risk. Groundbreaking in its research, inspiring in its clarity, Childhood Disrupted explains how you can reset your biology—and help your loved ones find ways to heal.

Childhood Abuse Survivors Experiences of Parenting

Trigger Points: Childhood Abuse Survivors Experiences of Parenting, by Joyelle BrandtDawn Daum. (2015)

Trigger Points Anthology is a collection of writing by parents who are survivors of childhood abuse.