Month: April 2015

Animal Abuse

Did you know that people are killing animals for there fur?  I think that if these people don’t want there animals they should take them to an animal shelter. ANIMALS ARE PEOPLE TO!!!!!! They deserve respect like all living things.

-Emily S.

People Who Kill Animals For Their Fur :-(

Dear Animal Police,

 

Do you know what people are doing to these poor animals? People are killing poor animals for their fur.   People are killing poor animals when they didn’t do  anything wrong! You guys are doing a great job helping these poor animals.

Why are people killing animals for their fur because there abusing them.One owner tied his dog up in his garage with no food and water. Also these teenagers wanted their dog to fight but the dog didn’t want to fight. So the they tied him up to the railroad track and a police found the dog. We need to treat these animals better.

They are also killing sea animals for their blubber,scales and turtle shell. The people who go fishing drop their hook in the water carelessly and it gets stuck on the animals that are in the water. Some people kill sea turtles for their shells. Thank you for caring about these poor animals.

 

Sincerely,

 

Alyssa S.

 

 

 

Why We Love People Who Hurt Us

http://humanmagnetsyndrome.com/

The Human Magnet Syndrome: Why We Love People Who Hurt Us, by Ross A. Rosenberg, M.Ed., LCPC, CADC (2013)

Also by Ross A. Rosenberg …

Anger Turned Inside Out: New Perspective On Anger

Anger is a sign that something needs to change.

Anger is hurt and fear of abandonment turned inside out.

Anger is a secondary feeling that is often identified as the primary emotion. It, therefore, never communicates anything constructive.

Behind every terrifying roar of anger is a hurt or frightened person who is ineffectively trying to get others to love, affirm and accept them.

Anger is a futile and paradoxical boundary that some people utilize in order to avoid being hurt.

Anger is often confused with real power and strength.

Anger that achieves control and domination ALWAYS encourages dissent and rebellion.

Control with intimidating anger requires a constant flow of it.

Intimidated people often adapt to anger, thereby requiring higher levels of destruction.

Eventually, the angry person is expelled from their position of power and domination, which reveals them as the abusive coward that they really are.

Anger is misidentified as a powerful sense of righteousness and conviction.

Hurtful anger always backfires when used against the one’s you love.

Anger always divides relationships, never reconciles them

Intimidating anger may be used to bully or control, but in actuality, it is a defensive reaction from a frightened or cowardly person.

The angry, intimidating people were defenseless victims of aggression or abuse at one time.

After the destructive consequences of hurtful anger, many people regret the harm they caused.

Anger NEVER communicates one’s deeper more fundamental feelings.

Intimidating anger does not come from a position of strength but rather a place of fear.

We must be the guardians against our own anger. With vigilance, we can avoid falling prey to ourselves.

What’s in being “king of the jungle” when you are alone?