About the Future
-What would your relationship be like if your current problems were solved?
-Please share your hopes and/or goals for your relationship.
–What strengths do you have as a couple that could be used to help you solve your problems?
–Is it possible that you’re both focusing on how bad things are that you’ve lost touch of your abilities to improve your situation?
–Try shifting your concerns from the problems/weaknesses to your strengths as a couple …
–What’s your role in producing or maintaining the problem you’re currently experiencing?